An Unusual Path To Learning

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I’ve been asked the following questions many times in my life:

  • How do you know so much about so many topics?

  • How did you get so smart?

  • Where does your love of reading and learning come from?

  • How did you learn how to speak so eloquently in front of crowds?

I can link the answers to many of those questions to an unusual place: being raised as a Jehovah’s Witness.

I remember being taught to read from my mom reading me ‘The Book of Bible Stories’ and then asking me to read with her from around age 3. I think I encountered many tough words to pronounciate and even though I have a stutter for much of my childhood, I learned to sound my way through words and different patterns.

Why was I so motivated to read?

Well, on Sundays during the second hour at the Kingdom Hall, we read through a magazine that has 20 or so questions that had to be answered by the audience. Even as I kid, I knew that if I could answer those questions clearly, I would get a lot of love, attention, and affection for kids and adults alike. There was a three-step process:

  • First, you had to study so that you found the answer that was in the article

  • Second, you had to have to courage to raise your hand and the patience to wait to be called on if you got missed by the moderator

  • Third, you had to articulate the answer well and quickly, or else the moderator moved on to someone else

The preparation and lessons learned here applied to how I approached many things later in life, including:

  • Knowing the value of preparation

  • Not being intimidated to say something, even in front of knowledgeable adults

  • Not giving up if I didn’t get recognized on the first try

  • Making my point, whether I am first to speak or have to adapt because I get to speak later on a topic and can’t use all of my original points

  • How to command an audience and a room

I would say it’s never too late to invest in your comfort and ability to do these things. I was fortunate to have structure early on in life that naturally supported this development.

I would love to hear about other unusual roads to living and learning. Everyone’s story is unique and deserves to be told.